PHA urges parents to talk to their children about alcohol and drugs

PHA urges parents to talk to their children about alcohol and drugs

In light of recent events, the Public Health Agency (PHA) is reminding parents across Northern Ireland about the importance of talking to their children about the risks associated with alcohol and drugs.

The PHA is encouraging parents to point out the dangers of intoxication to their children and to encourage them to look after their personal safety and that of their friends.

There is an unhealthy drinking culture in Northern Ireland and underage drinking is just one aspect of this culture.

Drugs and Alcohol Lead with the PHA, Owen O’ Neill, stressed that parents have a huge influence on their children’s attitudes towards drugs and alcohol.

“We would like parents to talk to their kids about the serious consequences of underage drinking. If their child is old enough, we would like parents to encourage responsible use of alcohol, should they choose to drink.”

Owen O’ Neill warned that intoxication can lower inhibitions and allow young people to do things that would be out of character.

“Drinking can increase your confidence and make you more likely to take risks you would normally avoid.

“It is important to let our young people know that you can have a great night out without drugs or alcohol.”

The PHA also recognises that peer pressure can have a strong influence on young people.

“We urge parents to highlight the dangers to the children about getting caught up in behaviour such as drinking games, which have the potential to quickly increase consumption of alcohol and this can be highly dangerous.”

Tips for parents:

Do

• make the first move and bring up the topic of alcohol;

• take time to listen to what your child has to say;

• respect your child’s views if you want the same in return;

• discuss the risks associated with drinking alcohol;

• discuss possible consequences of their actions and support them to make the right choices;

• think about your own drinking and the influence this can have on your child’s behaviour.

Don’t

• assume that your child doesn’t want to talk – not talking to your child about alcohol can be interpreted as you approving of them drinking;

• assume they already know everything;

• interrupt or be judgemental even if you don’t agree with their opinion;

• say one thing to your child but behave differently yourself.

More information on looking after mental health and the support available in Northern Ireland can be found at www.mindingyourhead.info

For further information on tips for talking to your children about alcohol see the ‘You your child and alcohol booklet’ on the PHA’s website: www.bit.ly/childandalcohol

For further information on alcohol limits see www.knowyourlimits.info